Broken Hearted Teenager

It was a talk of the town when people knew that Chris, a popular basketball player of school team, was dating someone at that time.
People tried to find out who is that lucky girl, how they met, and  what she did to get him,  who had never dated anyone officially. 
While people were talking about that, i was sitting there in the corner of the building looked at the guy sitting beside me "why you have to be so popular, i don't like that everyone is really interesting in interested us right now. 
Yeah, that girl was me who just an ordinary girl and doesn't like to be in the event at all. "That really doesn't matter for me, all i only care is you. 
That was what he told me so i tried not to worry about what people are saying. We got along very well, never got in any fight, that time was a very special time for us. But every time we did something together, he always put everything on social network like facebook, twitter, or even clip video on youtube. 
Sometimes those things bothered me a little bit but i tried not to worry too much. On his birthday, i made him a video clip that i sang a song for him and he seemed really like it. He redone that clip again by adding a lot of special effects, it looked like a music video that made by professional artist, before putting that on youtube like what he always did. At first i was really mad because i wanted only him to hear that song.
I asked him to remove that but he didn't listen to me and said i took things too serious. That was the first time we hadn't talk for a weak. All my friends said he was right, i took things too serious, there was nothing bad on that clip but really cute instead. 
So i chose to forgive him even though i didn't like what he had done really. Things got worse when people put some really bad comments that hurt my feeling like i was not pretty enough to be his girlfriend or i dated him just because i wanted to be famous. That made me really upset, i asked him to remove that clip and not to put anything about me on any social network again. 

He said that was nonsense and he wouldn't give up on that for sure. I understood that he cared about all those things more than me, not like what he had told me when we first dated. Finally i decided to break up with him, even though it was really sad, but all his those things couldn't upset me anymore.
 I don't know if i was doing the right thing, but now my life is happier when i don't need to worry about what people are talking about me.

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 Suggestions about being broken-hearted teenagers

      1. Avoid the former love. Yes, avoid. No, this isn’t being immature. Seeing your former flame can bring out emotions and may cause you do to or say something you will regret. In the first few weeks the best thing you can do for yourself is avoid being where you know they will be.

        2.Talk out your feelings with close friends. Get everything out so that you won’t hold it inside. Your friends may get sick of hearing you talk about the situation but you need to let out all your feelings and thoughts or they may come back to bite you later.

       3.Cry if you want to. It’s OK to cry over a loss. Don’t hold back, let the tears roll just do it in a safe and private place where it is unlikely to get back to your ex. You don’t want your tears to be used as a guilt trip. Their purpose is to cleanse you of any pain not make your lover come back.

         4.Let go of mementos. Put away or give away anything and everything that reminds you of the relationship. Hide them out of sight so they will be out of mind until you are able to remember the relationship without longing for it to still be going strong.

         5.Don’t slip up and get together with your ex. When you are feeling sad or missing a relationship it can be very easy to fall back in to the arms of your ex but DO NOT DO THIS. This will only set you back and let’s face it, if things ended the relationship wasn’t perfect to begin with so why would you want to rekindle things?

        6.Focus on all the things about your ex that drove you crazy, turned you off, or that you just plain found annoying. Think about these things often and replay them in your mind over and over. Dwell on them. It will make you feel better to remember that your former flame was not perfect and that there are things you won’t really miss.

      7.Think about the mean, cruel or rude things your ex may have done in your relationship. Really give these things play in your memory. Remind yourself that somebody who truly cared for you would not have done such thoughtless things and tell yourself (over and over) that you are better off without that kind of ego crushing behavior in your life.

        8.Maintain a strict no contact policy and stick with it. Don’t pass notes through friends. Don’t make any calls. Stay away from instant messaging or texting on your cell. Just don’t contact your ex until you are totally and completely sure you no longer want to be with him or her. It is the only way.

Problems‏

The reasons why they broke up are because of their different interests that made them didn't agree on the same thing. Things that bothered one didn't bother another. And they were dating at the young age,that means they were not mature enough.

Conclusion

This story is about two  people that met when they were too young, So when they misunderstood each other, they couldn't make up and decided to break up finally. Even though that hurt both of them, but they need to get over  lives have to go on. 

Avril Lavigne - When you're gone

Why teenager Can’t Resist Paying Attention to Food, Sex, or Danger

Why teenager Can’t Resist Paying Attention to Food, Sex, or Danger ???

Have you ever wondered why traffic always slows when people are driving by an accident? Do you moan about the fact that people are attracted by the gruesome, and yet find that you glance over too as you drive by? Well, it’s not really your fault, Nobody can resist looking at scenes of danger. It’s your “old brain” telling you to PAY ATTENTION.

Well..the point is about our brains.
We’ll talk about the idea that you really don’t have one brain, you have three. The “new brain” is the conscious, reasoning, logical brain that you think you know best; the mid brain” is the part of the brain that processes emotions, and the “old brain” is the part of the brain that is most interested in your survival.

From reptiles to people — If you look at brains from an evolutionary perspective, the “old brain” developed first (hence the name “old brain”!). In fact, that part of our brain is very similar to the brain of a reptile, which is why some people call it the “reptilian” brain.

“Can I eat it? Can I have sex with it? Will it kill me?” – The job of your old brain is to constantly scan the environment and answer the questions: “Can I eat it? Can I have sex with it? Will it kill me?” That’s really all the old brain cares about, is food sex and danger. When you think about it, this is important. Without food you’ll die, without sex the species won’t continue, and if you are killed the other two questions don’t matter. So animal brains developed early on to care intensely about these three topics. As animals evolved they developed other capacities (emotions, logical thought), but they retained a part of their brain to always be scanning what is going on for these three critical questions.

You Can’t Resist — You just can’t resist noticing food, sex, or danger. It doesn’t matter how hard you try to not notice these 3 things in your surroundings, you will always notice them. It’s the old brain working. You don’t necessarily have to do anything once you notice, for example, you don’t have to eat the chocolate cake when you see it, you don’t have to flirt with the attractive person who walked into the room, and you don’t have to run away from the large scary guy that walked in the room with the good looking woman. But you WILL notice all of those things whether you want to or not.